Everyone has an opinion on what makes someone sexy. Some people like legs, others collar bones. But what about the attributes that someone has aside from their appearance? While we first notice people’s looks, after we get to know someone for a while, we tend to look past the looks and start appreciating them for who they are. I’ll use myself as an example. When I’m hanging out with my husband, I’m not thinking about his green eyes, his smile or any other part of him. When I’m with him, I’m thinking of how smart he is and how he treats our daughter. To me, that’s as sexy as you can get.
I remember the first time a guy blew me away. I was hanging out with a few friends in NYC when we came across a little girl who had lost her mom and was crying. One of the guys in the group went up to her, calmed her down and started to ask her questions that would help her find her mom. His take charge attitude and the kindness he showed the little girl at that moment made my friend look very sexy in my mind.
While different people have different ideas on what is sexy, here is a list of what I find to be sexy:
Intelligence- He should be able to carry a conversation in a way that shows he’s smart.
Sense of Humor- Have to love a guy who can make you laugh and has no problem laughing at himself.
Cultured- I love hearing stories about people’s travels, where they’ve been and what they’ve learned.
Confidence- I like a man who knows his mind and his self-worth and carries himself in a way that shows it. There’s a fine line between confidence and egotistical. I can’t stand men who are full of themselves and treat others like they’re beneath them.
Honesty- I’m not into games and like people who say it like it is.
I’m not going to say that looks don’t matter at all. Of course they do, but over time, I just feel like there are other things that are more important than looks. However, if I had to pick two physical things that I find attractive in a man, they would be his smile and his hands. There’s nothing in the world that can compare to a smile lights up a room and I love looking at people’s hands- it’s just something that I do.
What makes someone sexy for you?